We all look for love at many point of our lives, but in the essence of finding it we forget that “love” cannot be found. It is felt; in our heart, in our mind, in our very soul. It has a thousand forms and a hundred faces. It is a blessing and a curse, yet the profound form of love should be like a serendipity feeling. To feel warm and fuzzy when the one you love touches you. It’s a feeling of not letting go. When you are in love, the world doesn’t matter at all. You just want to be in the presence of the loved one(s). Such fleeting feeling slowly and steadily becomes a paranoia and you become paranoid at the slightest behavioral deviation from the stereotype that the world has created. The line between being loved and not loved is very vague thus the best judge is you.
Our fairytales feed us at the end of every story that the couple lived “happily ever after”. Do they really? Does it happen in real life? Oh yes it does, but not everyday is a day out of pink-blue story book with a picture of an unicorn. The very craving for love makes you do things good and bad. The only way to keep your mind sane even in love is when you stop pitying yourself and trust more on your instincts. In reality not everyday feels flowery, not everyday the meadows are green.
You may have a story decorated with pixie dust that how you met your partner yet the next day you become couple it is the hardest. That day everything changes around you. Nothing is like yesterday. It is the day metanoia kicks in. From this day onward you have formed a new bond, a fragile bond that remains fragile for the rest of your life until you die. I say this bond is fragile because, a slight change in your partner can give birth to a new emotion in your heart and thus there is a tug to the string. This tug is where the downfall can start but if you are careful enough make the string into a braid the bond becomes strong. As the time passes you add more strings between you two and keep braiding them so that it no amount of emotional tug can break you apart. Relationships are hard they say. They say it right. You feel confused, overwhelmed and hot most of the days yet if you still feel like not letting go of that person, you are definetly in love.
We never get what we expect at the very moment we wish for something but yet wishes come true. Impossible love happens. Shit also happens but nevermind. Everybody gets love one day or the other if not everyday. Love gives you an ‘Ikigai’ (a Japanese word which means a reason for you to wake up in the morning).
Love and lust go hand in hand. Lust will always come if you have drowned in the “love river”. Lust burns you up in holy flames. They set your heart on fire. If your lust is not curbed by that loved one even the soft bed feel like a bed of needles poking at you-know-where. At such times just embracing him/her and sleeping is a bliss. You get no one to blame. Not your partner and never you. So a lust free love is fake. If you are not attracted to the person you so love then it’s not love my dear. It is just you feeling alone and need a hand to hold in the dark, like a friend. And this friend will never be your lover. The books, the movies, the theatres show all kinds of love that exists in the world. Kudos to them. But you know, Love is a passion. And I think, it is the ultimate form of passion one can unleash.
Humans are a unique creation. We have innumerable emotions locked in us of which which show only a few. Like a tip of an iceberg. In this huge massacre of a world “Love” should be always our first priority and we should learn to embrace it with open arms at every opportunity given without having a fear of being let down.
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